Sex, Sensuality & the City
A HERA Fireside Conversation for Women


Time & Location
17 Jul 2026, 6:15 pm – 8:15 pm
8 Maire Street, 8 Maire Street, Tāhunanui, Nelson 7011, New Zealand
Guests
About
After the hilariously honest and unexpectedly fabulous conversations at our recent HERA Pow Wow, one topic kept bubbling up around the table...
Sex.
Libido.
Desire.
Feeling sexy
And the question many women quietly ask themselves...
"Is this normal?"
Women shared stories about not having had sex for months... or years.
About feeling disconnected from their bodies.
About wondering where their sensual selves disappeared to somewhere between raising children, building businesses, caring for everyone else, navigating menopause, stress, exhaustion and the endless life admin.
And do you know what?
Almost every woman in the room nodded.
So, we decided to lean in.
Join us for an intimate HERA Fireside Conversation, hosted by Life Coach, Caron Proctor and holistic therapist Elayne Lane as we gather around the fire to talk honestly, laugh loudly, share stories and explore what it means to reconnect with our sensual selves.
We'll be exploring questions like:
✨ When did you last feel truly sensual?
✨ Is it normal to have absolutely no libido?
✨ How do I feel sexy when I'm exhausted and living in leggings?
✨ Can we talk about menopause and desire?
✨ What helps us reconnect with ourselves — with or without a partner?
✨ What if sensuality is about far more than sex?
This won't be awkward, clinical or embarrassing.
It will be what HERA does best.
Women sharing stories.
Women laughing.
Women realising they are not weird, alone, or the only ones
wondering these things.
Together we'll share experiences, tips, wisdom and practical ideas to help us nurture this often-neglected part of ourselves through every season of life.
Because feeling sensual isn't just about sex.
It's about feeling alive.
Your ticket includes a glass of bubbles, chocolate, cosy fireside conversation and what promises to be a beautifully honest evening.
Plus, a portion of every ticket sold will be donated to the Nelson Women's Centre, supporting local women in our community.
🔥 Hosted by: Caron Proctor & Elayne Lane
🔥 Limited to just 10 women to keep the evening intimate and safe.
🔥 Investment: $39 HERA Members, or $45 none members
Bring a friend, your sister, your mum, or simply come on your own.
We have a feeling many women have been waiting for a conversation exactly like this.
Tickets
HERA Member ticket
Includes a glass of bubbles or juice, chocolate and a donation to the Nelson Women's Centre
$39.00
Friend or Family
This includes a glass of bubbles, or juice, chocolate and a donation to the Nelson Women's Centre
$45.00
Total
$0.00
